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Monthly Archives: December 2017

Approaches to Show Love to a Woman

One most troublesome thing to do by any man in a relationship is the manner by which to love his lady. In any case, as troublesome as this is so additionally it is extremely urgent for the survival of the relationship.

It is important to know that loving your wife is the foundation on which your relationship will stand. And it has been discovered that many men do not know how to show love to their spouses and this has constituted major challenge why many marriages and relationships could not survive.

Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. 1Pet.3

Given below are 7 ways to show love to a woman based on the biblical injunctions given by one of the greatest apostles on the earth, Apostle Peter.

7 ways to show love to a woman

1. Be to her a husband

The word husband is from the word husbandry, meaning the care, cultivation and breeding of crops and animals, management and conservation of resources.

The same way the husband as the male in a marital relationship is that man who can care, nurture, manage and conserve the woman in his life. It will be difficult to love a woman when you are not yet a husband.

That is why the bible emphatically addressed the matter of showing love to women to their husbands. It is a husband who can know how to love a woman; his own wife.

2. Dwell with her

To dwell is to remain with something or someone for a time, to live together as a resident of a particular place, to exist together, to lie with.

You are to dwell with her not minding her natural tendencies. Husbands must remain with their wives in sickness and in health – whether it is convenient or not.

Dwelling with your woman as a way of showing love is not about her but about you.

A loving husband must be willing to dwell with his wife when the going is good and when otherwise. It does not matter whether she is a nag, you are to show love by dwelling with her despite her weakness and strength. Do not dwell with her only when she is strong.

3. Treat her with knowledge

This is very important. She is your wife and not one of your siblings. She is your wife and not your girlfriend or concubine. She is not even your maid or personal assistant and should not be treated as one.

Treat her with knowledge, realize who she is to you and dwell with her according to that knowledge. Your wife is a stakeholder in your affairs. The moment you realized this the better for you.

4. Give her honour

This is wow! Love honours, adores and worship. You are to honour her both in public and private, when convenient and or not. It is one of the most difficult things to do for a man in a relationship but remember it is not about her but you.

It does not matter whether she I contentious you just must show love by honouring her.

5. Treat her with understanding

Your ability to understand a woman determines your love for that woman. It would be difficult to love someone you do not understand.

Be aware of her feelings and emotions. Understand her weaknesses and strength. By understanding her you will know how to render help where necessary.

6. See her as co-inheritor of God’s promises

Two are better than one. No matter how great you might be, when you married you will become far better.

There are certain honours and respects you cannot enjoy except you have a solid relationship with your wife. Every married man can testify to this. A good marital relationship always enhances the personalities of the people involved. It is a key to higher ground in life and ministry.

You are co-inheritors of the promises of God here on earth and so must treat each other that way. Treat her as co traveler, and pilgrim here on earth. You are both in the journey of life and so need the co-operation of one another to end well.

Basic Trick Etiquettes to Approach Girls

Is it accurate to say that you are frightened of young ladies even before drawing closer them? Without a doubt the vast majority of you would reply in the certifiable. Some of are truly apprehensive of taking a gander at pretty young ladies. How extraordinary it would be on the off chance that you knew the ideal and most ideal method for drawing closer a lady. How you ever considered discovering the most ideal approach to approach a young lady you felt pulled in to? Assuming no, continue perusing and you will take in a few tips to achieve it. What’s more, on the off chance that you ace this workmanship, rest guaranteed of a weekend date with somebody you generally needed to have close by!

Learning to approach girls confidently:

Practice makes man perfect. This is true to a great extent. For example, you are reading a few volumes of books on approaching girls and do not practice the tips you learn from the books, it will be a complete waste of time. Unless you put into practice the techniques, you cannot accomplish it. Ideation without execution is delusion. Therefore, reading this article on seduction is no guarantee that you will confident and courageous enough to approach a girl. But if you diligently practice the tips you are going to read, surely you will be able to muster up some courage to do it. In order to attract girls and become comfortable with approaching them, you need to go out and actively do it.

The thought of rejection is the worst foe of a man trying to approach a girl. Therefore, as you prepare yourself to approach a girl, be prepared to be spiked and rejected several times over. Hence it is very important:

  • For you to learn to deal with rejection before approaching a pretty girl.
  • If you can do this, it will stand you in good stead when you have deal with rejection.
  • Further, it will also add to the development of your overall personality as a mature and resilient human being.

A great way to begin building your emotional security is adopting the belief that women need you more than you need them.

The chances are that most attractive women will respond to you somewhere between neutral or positive because being approached by a man or a boy is definitely an honor to them. Therefore, they wouldn’t reject or say no to you outright.

How to Approach Girls: A Different Philosophy

After reading a lot about seduction, our experiences are that the techniques we read therein are not effective and working in everyday situations. Have you ever faced a problem like this? The tips that one often gets from reading are that smile, have proper eye contact, use the correct body language etc. These are the things all other guys like you are doing. There is then no novelty.

The question is: How can you approach a girl differently without being dependent on these conventional tips?

And this new technique is all about indirect communication. This simply means that you need to attract the attention of the girl you are interested in. You should make her feel that you want to know more about her and feel one her. For this, you also need to put yourself in the shoe of the girl you are seducing. You should know how she wants to be treated by you. Your interactions and communications with women will make it possible for you. Therefore, keep practising until you become perfect in it.


One Easy Secret to Quickly Make Him Want You

Snappy movement: get up for a sec and get to the closest reflect. Investigate it (not terrible, right?). Presently tilt your head up a bit, so you’re kind of looking down your nose at yourself. What sort of vibe would you say you are getting from you? Perhaps a touch of deigning or self-important, similar to you’re choosing whether or not to contract an old secondary school adversary for a vocation? Whatever illustration you’d utilize, it’s likely not extremely welcoming.

Okay, that was interesting. Now shake it out and look at you again. This time start out looking straight on, then slowly lower your chin an inch or two while maintaining eye contact with yourself. What’s the vibe now? Maybe you find that as you look at you like this, a sly smirk involuntarily forms on your face. Maybe instead of the smirk you feel the cute puppy dog eyes coming on, depending on your personality. How do you feel? Would sexy and mysterious be too strong?

Next time you’re talking to a guy you’re interested in (whether it’s your boyfriend of two years or someone you’re just meeting in a coffee shop), try looking at him like this and see how he responds. You’re actually sub communicating quite a lot here. Firstly, he’ll feel like you’re harboring some mysterious thoughts or that you know something he doesn’t, which will intrigue him and make him curious about you. Secondly, looking “up” at him like this is just a little submissive. You’re showing that you’re willing to slip into your feminine with him, which will invite him to channel his masculine in that moment.

So he will suddenly find himself feeling A) absorbed in you and B) strong and self-assured, without really knowing why. He’ll want to learn more about you, and he’ll have the confidence to ask you thoughtful questions. Perhaps the best thing about this is that it’s so subtle and low investment, so you have nothing to lose and only the most studied students of body language will see what you’re doing. No need to look at him like this all the time; think of it as a dash of spice to throw on an already flavorful interaction. Just use it when saying hello or when reacting to something he says.

I didn’t make this up; I first learned about it when a very artful woman used it on me.

It was a winter afternoon and my girlfriend and I were cuddling on the couch. She was reading a book about body language, and I was reading a rather dry research paper (this was when I was a scientist). She nudged me with her elbow and said, “Look at me, I want to try something.” I looked, and there it was. Since then I’ve noticed other women doing this sometimes, to me and to other guys. When a woman “looks up to me,” I get spirals of energy moving up through my chest (that’s what attraction feels like for me; chest spirals), even if I wasn’t thinking of her as a romantic entity a minute ago.

So, if you want to give the guys you talk to even more intense chest spirals than they’re already getting, add this little trick to your repertoire, and use it responsibly.

Ways To Dating Help Men Be More Sightly

From what I’ve seen now and again, dating for ladies can be a dismal, miserable attempt. I can perceive how ladies lose all trust in finding a not too bad man nowadays. – A man with behavior, class and a man who knows how to treat a woman.

Look guys, if you’ve had date after date and none of the women seem to want to stick around, maybe it’s not them at all who has the problem! – Maybe it is you! – And If that’s the case, you may want to pay attention to my four tips below to help you become more likeable. One of the tips might help your situation.

Don’t Be Too Loud

Some guys out there are just way too loud. It’s like they just want to talk over everybody and be the standout or center of attention. I’m not sure if it’s an alpha male issue or that guys who do this are trying to compensate for other issues and insecurities. Maybe they are overweight, maybe they feel unattractive compared to all of the other guys in the room. – Maybe they live at home with their mom. At any rate, don’t be the loud guy, the guy that talks over everyone. This is extremely annoying and unattractive. Everyone likes to be heard in the conversation.

Don’t Hit on Another Guy’s Girlfriend or Wife

You would think this tip wouldn’t have to make it to the list, but unfortunately it does. – Because I myself have had problems with guys hitting on my girlfriend and have seen plenty of other guys hitting on people’s girlfriends and wives in front of other people. Sometimes they’ve had too much to drink at a social gathering, and sometimes these guys are just total jerks. So, don’t be a total jerk! I assure you, nobody likes the guy at the party who is hitting on other guys’ wives and girlfriends!

Don’t Make Sexual Jokes

“Wow, that joke was funny. – If we were 15!” Sexual jokes can actually be funny, but there’s a time and place for them. – And on first dates with a woman or at parties with a potential girlfriend is not the place. This is a short and sweet rule. Don’t make sexual jokes with women you are wanting to date. And especially don’t embarrass her in front of her friends by making sexual jokes. Bad move!

Don’t Be Boastful and Arrogant

When it comes to one of my top dating rules for guys, this tip is definitely up there! Don’t brag to impress your date! Be confident, but don’t be boastful and arrogant. People are much more attracted to those people who are down to earth, easy to talk to, kind and also interested in other people.